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Why would you want to embarrass him and make him feel bad? I'm sure if the tables were turned you would probably want him to pretend it never happened, I know I would!
Finding Boyfriend Dirty Boxers
So earlier today I look on the side of my bed and see his boxers lying there on the ground, and I was like when did he leave these? So I picked them up to put in my dirty clothes hamper and I saw the shit stain all over them. Now I know it's common for underwear to contain some type of stain but this was just in my opinion disgusting. Do I tell him about them or just keep it to myself ? (I know I just shared it with you guys)
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Im sure you have a few period stains or maybe forget to properly wrap your feminine products smh. Leave him he needs a grown ass woman not some petty lil girl.
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yes it is really petty
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either wash the damn clothes or not, what kind of so are you to want to ask or tell him about that, do you honestly believe he dont know that there is stains???
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lol I'm not being petty , simply asking for advice as to how to go about the situation.
Every relationship is different, my boyfriend & I laugh about those kinds of things, but if you think he would get embarrassed I would just pretend it never happened! I mean if you kept finding shit stains in all his underwear then that may be a reason to bring it up. But shit happens (litterely) Lol it happens to all of us from time to time!
Sometimes my fiancΓ© has nasty stains in his underwear, too. Yes it's gross but am I really that worried about it no.. I have mentioned it a few times and at this point I just tease him about it π he simply doesn't care lol. If he wants a dirty booty that's on him!! But if he wants any he better go wash his ass π
I agree I would tell him not to leave his shitty ass underwear in my room! Gross lol But in my opinion I wouldn't suggest any hygiene tips to him. He's a grown adult, it's not another personals place to tell him how to wipe and what to wipe his ass. What he does in the bathroom is his business
1. Do you do his laundry? If you don't then it's not really appropriate.2. Does this happen often or is this just a one off occurrence? If it's just the once it may be that he was unlucky to find himself without toilet paper and knows full well how to keep himself clean and therefore doesn't need a lecture.
Since you are his SO and (I'm assuming yall are sexually active) are intimate, I think it is okay to talk to him about it. Not try to embarrass him, but make sure he understands the importance of cleanliness and hygiene. Maybe suggest using unscented baby wipes (not allowed to flush, so maybe use the Charmin or other TP brand of wet wipes) for #2? Helps get much cleaner much faster.
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