Are my standards too high?

Question

Hey 😊
I am 22 years old and I have trouble meeting guys to have a relationship with because I'm a virgin. Now it's not that they don't want to be with me because of it. It's more so that once they find out that I'm not ready to loose it yet, they don't want me any more.

I don't really know how to handle this situation because I can't expect them to stay when they want something I won't give them and I don't want to compromise my standards or ethics. Especially not when I feel pressured in to it.

I guess my main question is am I prudish for wanting to wait? Should I be more willing to give it up? Or should I just continue being single until I meet someone who is willing to wait until I'm ready?

Please help!! I really need some advice here 😳

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Don't change who you are or what you believe in to please some dbag who just wants to poke you! Stand true to what you believe is best for yourself. The right guy will come along. (:

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You should not compromise. If you want to wait, WAIT! You shouldn't give such an important part of yourself in hopes of someone staying.

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Then you haven't found the one yet

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Anybody who ditches u because u want to wait is a douche & you're better off w/ out him! I was raised Catholic & taught that u wait until marriage, turned out that I didn't meet my husband until I was 35! We actually were intimate before we got married (my choice he did not pressure me at all & was actually happy that I was a virgin) but I'm so glad I waited for him! He's amazing :) & now we're expecting a baby girl in Feb. 2017!

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You should wait! There's nothing better than having a man that's willing to respect, wait, and love you just for who you are and want. Trust me it takes patience to wait for the right one but for sure he's out there looking for you too! Keep your head up and know you're worth more than sex. 🎉🤗

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Don't change your standards for someone who may come and go. If you loose it now I think you'll regret it. A man that likes you for you will respect you and your morals. And you're worth it! And chances are you're more likely to attract a man with high morals as well. :)

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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you not wanting to have sex until you are conpletely ready your standards arent high at all dont compromise yourself to please others all you will end up with is regret and resentment i say keep dating someone will come around who understands and is willing to stick it out and wait for you

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If they leave you because you want to wait for the right person and the right time they are being stupid. If I didn't have mine taken away from me by my mother's boyfriend I would have waited as well. Which I explained everything to my husband and how I felt about the whole thing. He said whenever I was ready he wasnt going to force the issue. Do what is right for you. You don't want to compromise your beliefs for some guy. Only you have the right to say ok I'm ready or no I want to wait longer.

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Search until you find a man who is willing to respect your wishes! Just as simple!

Are my standards too high?

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