Curious? Is it normal?

Question

Okay, so like I have came before but only when I have control of how it happens. But my boyfriend can't get me there.. And I feel like my boyfriend tries so hard to get me there. And I just don't. Am I normal?

Answer

Definitely. Very few women can orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. However, if your boyfriend has tried going down on you or rubbing/fingering you, then the issue is something else. The clitoris is where females get the most stimulation. Some guys just go at that thing like nobody's business but it really takes some finessing. To much action can actually make your clit go numb and make it impossible for you to orgasm that way. It's not you, and it is normal. Try to communicate more with your boyfriend so he knows what's happening. Guide him but also be mindful of his ego--it might frustrate him that he can't get you off, too. Give him feedback when he's doing something right and lead the way when he's doing something wrong.

Answer

Girl yes! Completely normal. Try some new stuff, make sure what he's doing is turning you on, make sure to have some clit action, maybe put on a show for him so he sees what you like. I don't know! Get down with it girlfriend, own it!

Curious? Is it normal?

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