My boyfriend only lasts 5 minutes

I really want to have amazing sex but my boyfriend only lasts 1 round for about 5 minutes. He doesn't seem to care much about my sexual needs. He cums every time we have sex and when he's done, he'll finger me (& it doesn't feel good) and give up after a couple of minutes. I cannot be fingered for the rest of his relationship because it's not fair. I haven't had an orgasm in who knows how long. I'm just tired of this & he doesn't really seem to care as long as he gets his.