How do you know if you're cumming?

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I'm in a relatively new relationship and it's also my  first. My boyfriend and I lost our virginity to each other. With this said, I have no idea how to or if I have came while having sex with him. I don't really know what I'm supposed to feel. I mean, I think he's really good. I just don't know anything yet. Does anyone have any knowledge to help enlighten me?

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I'm still a virgin, but I'm pretty sure I've experienced clitoral orgasm. When I have one, this usually happens: the clit becomes red and too sensitive to touch; there's a physical pulsing feeling where the vaginal opening contracts and lots of cum leaks out; there's an emotional feeling of euphoria (you feel very happy and relaxed to the point that you even become drowsy); you lose interest in continuing with sexual activity because you're satisfied.

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Hi Belle! Congrats on your relationship! This is definitely a great question. It took me a long time to figure out how to tell if & when I actually came. Sometimes I still mistake certain feelings for experiencing an orgasm. But the signs are different for everyone. So next time you guys get into it, just listen to your body. I can't exactly tell you what you'll feel (again, it's different for everyone and only you can tell how your body works). But when it's all said and done, you should feel satisfied. If not, there's no harm in trying again...and again! Good luck girl!

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You will absolutely know if you climaxed or not. If you're unsure then you definitely did not.

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THIS SUPER TMI SO IF U DONT WANT TO KNOW DETAILS OF A HOW TO ORGASM (from my experience) DONT READ this is for her info only. So u asked how to get that insane feeling....well as many woman state it's different for everyone. I can't orgasm while my SO is inside me. I can squirt which is statisfying in its own way but not like an orgasm. All woman can squirt FYI. It's a myth that only some can. It's called ur g-spot. It'll feel almost like you have to pee....but in a very pleasurable way. It's hard to tell if u squirt the first time. I swear the first time I squirt I though I had just pissed all over my SO at the time. He assured me I was wrong 😂. Orgamsing on the other hand is all about the clit. What I do at first clear my mind. Find something sexy to imagine or look at or feel(my SO lol) and I start doing gentle circles with my or my SOs fingers to get me going. Teasing my nipples really helps too. The more turned on I get the faster and harder the circles can be and the nipple teasing. When I  get tense, all over warm, shaky, and weak I embrace it and keep going harder. Trust me. U want to embrace it. The release is well....you'll know. Sorry if this was too much but it seemed u needed more than "everyone's different" if that doesn't work for you there are always YouTube how to's lol

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It's like.. At least a clitoral orgasm anyway (I've never had a vaginal orgasm but I'm also pretty new to being sexually active and haven't had much time to experiment) but a clitoral orgasm is like.. You feel this really strong sensation of pleasure building up on and around your clit then suddenly it gets really intense and everything feels super good. You'll know trust me

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Hi Belle! I know this question is old but I just want to comment- you will NOT necessarily know!! All my life I struggled with cumming and all the women in my life would say “believe me, You’ll KNOW!” That was really discouraging for me because I really couldn’t tell.It turns out, I didn’t know! Cumming is different for everyone! It took a lot of practice but I finally began to identify my orgasms- I was having them but I didn’t know it because I was looking for some HUGE obvious sign because that’s what everyone else told me I’d find! Follow your pleasure and keep practicing :)

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my & my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, and I just figured out when I came. besides seeing it on his weiner, lmfao. it's deff an over whelming feeling, sometimes I want to climb the damn wall lmao.

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You'll know.  Believe me. If you have no insane feelings then you didn't.

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Oh you will definitely know . There’s 2 different orgasms . Vaginal and clitoral . Try playing with your clit while having sex, you’ll have an amazing orgasm!

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U will feel this feeling down there and it will extra wet and wen he pull out its white and thick

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