I know you ladies can't tell me what to do but u need your advice I've known about this for maybe 2/3 months now thinking I can get over it but I really can't and I feel as though it's better to move on for both our sakes but I'm not sure these messages are between him and his ex girl friend here a little back ground when we first met he seemed the perfect guy he told me he had no kids the only thing what went wrong in his life was he'd been prison twice for fighting and the tattoo on his neck was his brothers name and the date he 'died' as he was in the army anyway few months went by and I find out I'm pregnant it was planned I was happy he was not as really he didn't want the child he just said that so I didn't leave him and he told me I needed to get an abortion the same weekend I find out he's got 2 other kids from 2other woman he pays cs but has nothing to do with them after finding out about that and arguing and arguing what we're gonna do I find out I'm not having one baby I'm having twins so after more arguing I had a abortion cause I knew I couldn't bring 2 babies into this world in the environment I was in andway a few months after that I find out he went round his exs house while I was pregnant with his twins and supposedly slept with her but he said he only had the intention to sleep with her but he didn't but not only that he was texting her for probably a week or two while staying at my house sorry it's long