Bf is a bad stay at home dad. I'm overwhelmed.

My boyfriend decided to quit his job last month. He is supposed to be looking for a job but only did one day. I was OK with it because it was taking time from the VA y, long hours and I thought it would be better for her to be home with dad for now. Well he sucks. He don't feed her when he should. Or bathe her and gets offended every time I tell him what he needs to be done. Like I'm criticizing him as a parent. We got in a huge fight because the house is a mess it's my only day off I'm trying to clean and he complained about feeding her saying he didn't feel like it. I snapped because I'm over whelmed. What to do in this situation ?