Ok so my friend and I are both Christians, and anytime I bring up saving sex for marriage she says she would love to, but she doesn't want to wait that long. Recently her and her boyfriend had what I consider to be sex, but she says it isn't because he pulled out before he came inside her. I know it isn't really my business, but it is just really frustrating to me. She has also had oral sex with multiple ex boyfriends.

And to top it all off, the doctor thinks she has herpes, and she is looking to me for help, but I can't do anything. I feel helpless and like a horrible friend right now. And she doesn't understand that I am upset too, and I know I shouldn't be.

So what do y'all think, am I wrong?