What are your experiences with using the Softcup? Did you ever try having sex while having it in? I tried it for the first time yesterday and putting it in, I did have a little trouble but then I just had to push it in a little furthur. The day went great, no leaks, it was comfortable and was able to wear it for 12 hours. Taking it out was hell though! For one, putting my finger in my bloody vagina was gross to me and I couldn't take it out! I was freaking out!!!! But all I did was push a little and I was able to slide it out, thank god. I did put it in again because i really want to give it a try. What are your experiences with a Softcup???