I need to vent

So it's been 11 months since we started ttc and I've been trying to do everything right. Vitamins, excersice, hot baths (which I don't like), castor oil packs, massages. Preseed. I mean everything. And my husband doesn't want to get intimate anymore that once a week. I'm not a pushy person at all. But i. So hurt and frustrated it's getting to me so much now I can't even sleep.