Victims of pregnancy

Am i the only one who gets annoyed when women make themselves out to be helpless victims during pregnancy? Im 35 weeks now so i know the whole ordeal is less than pleasant but there are several girls i know that cant lift a finger without expecting to be waited on hand and foot. One just found out she was 5 weeks pregnant and i was thrilled for her so i sujested we go out to dinner to celebrate she said she would love to but she thought it was to hot for a pregnant woman to go outside and insisted her husband brings her food in bed...wtf?! Sorry but i needed to rant. Granted pregnant woman should take it easier than normal but for gods sake its not going to kill you to have to wipe your own ass!