Everyday with him sucks

So my husband and I argue constantly. He just pushes my buttons by having an attitude and just overrall being kind of rude. When my brother comes over he gets all clammy and doesn't talk much but always blames it on being tired and having a headache. He always says I never include him in anything but I really do try. I just wish I could do something. He always is upset about something no matter how small it is. There's always a new issue. Does this ever happen with your SO? Also, advice would be greatly appreciated!