Would you stay with someone if you loved them but was no longer inlove with them?

Question

I love my boyfriend he is the father of mt child and he treats me great. I'm no longer in love with him, I'm bored there is no more passion in our relationship and I feel like now we are both comfortable and just going through the motions. I really love him, I care about him alot and I know he care about me. Should i stay.... no there is no cheating or none of that.

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I think a lot of relationships, especially those with children tend to lose their spark when they get so focused on kids, work and the daily routines. However, if you love somebody I feel like there is always a way to ignite that flame again. Making time to reconnect as a couple is essential. We lose ourselves in the role as parents and forget that we are individuals with our own needs. Even if it's just cuddling on the couch watching a movie after the kids go to bed, or making dinner together it all helps nurture your relationship and encourage intimacy.

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If tou both still love each other then you should stay commited. You can always work on spicing thing up and reconnecting in new ways. Don't leave the man you love because you're both bored and comfortable. Find ways to change things up. Try some things you've both never done before. Ask him what he would want to go do, be open. Go do something out of your comfort zone.

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Try talking to him and finding ways to bring back the passion? To me a relationship needs constant work, obviously not too much hard work, but if neither is making an effort then the spark can fizzle x best of luck x

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Relationships are not always easy - it's time to put some effort into getting the spark back...

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Obviously you cant feel the same feeling of "being in love" as you could when you started dating. Love progresses, you grow up and so do your  feelings for your SO. It kinda annoys me that you're prepaired to just walk away and not even work on a relationship to bring the spark back. Why? Because leaving someone is actually easier than trying to repair a relationship. 
Talk to your SO about how you feel about your relationship and where it is going. Let him know how you feel and listen to how he feels. Try going on more dates, have some alone time, talk to them a lot more, slow dance at evening when your children go to sleep, kiss him and show him how much you respect him and everything he has done whenever you can. Never ever run away without trying. 
Good luck :)

Would you stay with someone if you loved them but was no longer inlove with them?

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