my parents recently got divorced and ever since then, my dad has been verbally abusing me. because of that, I prefer not to see him (I legally have a choice because of my age). he gets extremely angry and normally tears down my self-esteem. of course, I gave him a choice whether or not he would come to see my therapist with me, however he declined. it's seems to me that he doesn't want to fix our broken relationship. I get so jealous of other people who have their dads supporting and loving them and I feel like I can never get that. how can I convince my dad to go to my therapist with me? or at least try to fix our relationship?