Husband spends all his time with his mom

Yesterday my husband jipped me out of a date because he wanted to hang out with his mom. I'm so infuriated and he doesn't see The problem. I told him it's annoying that his mom comes first. He spends more time with her then me. Goes to dinners with her more than me not to mention nicer restaurants. I can't do this. He just sits there and tells me how wrong I am. I told him he needed to put me first and stop running to his mom every chance he gets. It doesn't feel great knowing you come second. Keep in mind my husband is fine with never having sex. But can't go a day without seeing his mother. Idk what to do.