I don't feel anything when I'm having SEX? Is that normal?

Question

Ladies I need HELP!!! Someone plz help me! 
I'm 21 years old. My sex life is not "great" I don't feel anything, & it hurts me. What should I do? How can I make it better?

Answer

Two thoughts come to mind:

1. Do you use lube? A good lube can make or break the sexual experience for many of us. Friction is great, but not inside your lady bits!! My favorite is AstroGlide Gel for Sensitive Skin, it's awesome for most penetrative kinds of sex, doesn't smell wierd, and rarely needs reapplication.

2. Can you get off via masturbation? If so, considering what you do when you masturbate. The percentage of women who reach climax from penetration alone is actually fairly small. Most women need varying not degrees of clitoral stimulation to get off. It may be worth changing up the way you have sex if you are one of the majority. :) Adding the use of a vibrator into your partner play can be fun for both parties, and if you like grinding, cowgirl can't be beat!

There *are* some other things you can try if it's more of a reaching climax/getting into it issue. Let me know if you wanna hear about them. ^_^

Good luck, sugar!

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Are you on the pill? I had that problem when I was younger, high school age, and I had to try different forms of BC to get back to normal. Ultimately I ended up quitting the pill and now have a beautiful daughter because of that decision but wouldn't trade her for anything!

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Same thing happens to me. It hurts because my cervix gets hit. But I don't feel anything....

I don't feel anything when I'm having SEX? Is that normal?

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