I'm on the pill but I've been wanting a baby for a while now have you ladies ever considered just not taking the pill anymore and not telling your SO? He says he's not ready but I feel no one is every truely ready and there is 9 months to prepare... He states it wouldn't be the worst thing if it did happen and that we are better off than most people so we have the income to care for a baby but I'm just at a loss and don't know if the baby fever will go away... I did get pregnant but suffered a miscarriage at 6 weeks and been so depressed about it.