I need your opinions please and advice- 1st time being pregnant

Hi all! I am a first time mommy to be and i am every emotion imagineable- happy scared worried tereified super excited etc. I just found out Wednesday afternoon and told my hubby wed. Night when he got home from work. He has been so different ever since i told him. We have planned this baby and been through the up and downs and bfn every month. I figured he would be super happy. Well here we go: this is how it all went down- we went to a restaurant to eat and i had a fork that had "daddy" written in binary code. (He is a computer guy). So i have our waitress slip it on his plate- he went silent. Didnt eat. And has been in freak out provider mode ever since. He has only hugged me omce since we found out. And it wasnt a hug. He was afarid to squeeze me bc i was pregnant. I mean wth???? Hes worrried about money. Hes worried about us selling and buying a home. Hes worried about baby furniture etc. He even asked me if i was grtting my tubes tied after this one!!!!!! I had only known for like 4 hours that i was pregnant and he asked that!!!!!! I am so upset. He says he is happy. We have a great marriage. We planned this baby. Why cant he just be happy and excited for 1 day with me? I broke down last night and told him how i felt because he started in on the cost of insurance going up. I told him how i felt and that with him acting this way i felt like he was saying this was a mistake. His response- to sit in his chair and say well im glad u feel this is a mistake. And i had to go to him to hug me and love on me like 30 minutes later.

So ok now that is out of the way- has anyone's spouse ever reacted like this??? How long did it last!?!?! Im at a loss and just want him to be happy with me!!!!!! We have longed and prayed and planned for this miracle- we get it - and he cant even be happy?!?!?!?!?!?