help!!!! DCFS
I'm not really sure where start. This is a very long post, please stay with me ❤️
I'm 19, no kids of my own.
My mom beat my youngest brother (8) on August 1st. Hitting him over and over again on his head and on his back. He yelled that he couldn't breathe, so I got involved and it ended in a physical altercation between me and her. I called his dad (he's my half brother- same mom but different dads) he came and got him. there's a police report about that against her. The day he came back to our house, a week and a half later, She burned him with a cigarette. This poor kid was too scared to tell me what happened, he finally told the nurse at the hospital what happened. I didn't know what it was or how to treat it accordingly, so I brought him to the hospital. They called DCFS and filed s police report. She smokes dope in front of him, he can step by step tell me how to cook and smoke crack. She used to do that shit in front of me when I was even younger than him, so I know damn well he's not lying to me. the room he sleeps in..... It's just piles and piles of filth. Moldy food, beer bottles smashed all over the floor, bloody q-tips all over, clothes from when he was a new born just molding over. She hasn't cleaned the room in almost 9 years.
I'm just sick of her not being home ever, she's always dropping him off at home with my grandparents after giving him Melatonin to go to sleep right away. (she lost our house 9 years ago, because she was always on drugs and never went to work so she lost her job, and was too involved with drugs to get back up on her feet right away. She doesn't pay her phone bill or rent. She has a decent paying job right now. Enough to not depend on my grandparents and walk all over them like she does.) she doesn't come home until it's past time to send him to school, and never sending him to school in clean clothes. This poor kid goes to school in the same uniform, underwear and socks for a whole week before even bathing him. She doesn't have him brush his teeth, all of his teeth right now are metal caps. She's doesn't sit with him and do homework, so he doesn't do homework. Sometimes she doesn't even send him to school, if she does its him Waking him up 5 minutes before school starts in the same uniform from yesterday....
I'm sick of it.
She's so neglectful, and so abusive.
The people I live with will never admit to dcfs how she really is. 1- it's their child. 2- it's their mother. My brother deserves better than this bitch, and no one cares.
My moms pissed at me, I never called DCFS or the cops. Not once. But she threw something at my car today and left a dent on it, she's calling me names, bringing her friends over to yell at me, he friend tried to attack me before my brother (who's 16) got involved. She's manipulating my 16 year old brother telling him that I'm dead to her, that I've never cared about them, or anything. When my youngest brother came back from his dad's, she was telling him that I hated him when he was born, and that I've never loved him.
She's telling everyone that I'm dead to her, that I'll never see my brothers again. Her friend was yelling at me, callin. Me worthless, a piece of shit, a dumb bitch, and that I'll never amount to anything. I didn't do this to her... My brothers dad and the hospital did.
I just don't know why to do. My mom passed her DCFS interview and inspection... They're just going to court now, so she can get the youngest back. There's a restraining order against her.
I'm just so scared, someone please give me any advice
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