Highlighting with oily skin?

Chloe • 🌈Stetson Titus born 5/4/16. 3 in my heart, 1 in my arms.
I love the look of highlighters on other people and I want to wear them too, but I have oily skin and I try my best to keep my face matte. I love my highlight until I get oily, them I feel like I am way too shiny. What do I do?