Any other high risk February moms?

Cal
I am a FTM with hypertension and history of a-fib. I've had a few appointments already with some specialists and my OB. I'm curious what other people's experience has been. We did pre-conception counseling, knowing I would have some difficulties later in the pregnancy, but I don't think I expected to have Challenges and concerns from doctors so early on. I'm only 30 and otherwise basically heathy. If there are enough of us I was hoping to have another sub group to share thoughts and notes on additions procedures or tests needed for our situations. Thanks!