Oral sex

Anyone have an issue with being told "no"' when you ask your man to show some love down there with his tongue? I literally get told no. No matter how much I please him he will not do anything that's not pleasing him at the same time & im sick of it. Do no tell me "no" & I shouldn't have to ask, am I right? Wtf. He barely eats me out but I please him all of the time . Today I had to ask him to eat me out & he told me no again. He's more upset bc we didn't have sex today.!!