My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and we have yet to have sex. I'm ready now but I don't know if he is? Every time I bring it up he changes the subject. But he is all about oral and make out sessions. And we have such a deep connection. Or we will be flirty together and he's the one who starts it and I won't mention anything about sex and he just says I still gotta buy condoms...