Is anyone fighting with their spouse/SO more than usual
I feel like every week, something comes up between me and my SO. He seems mad all the time, at me, not just bothered by the day or something. I don't know if hormones are making me read too much into everything. I find myself in tears at least once a week because I don't know what I did to him and every time I try to talk to him he just says "nothings wrong" and goes back to silence. He isn't being mean, just won't talk to me about anything, like we used to. Ignores me, walks away if I sit next to him or touch him. A few days ago, I was in the middle of telling him about something i had read on facebook, just a funny story, and literally, midsentence, he got up from the couch and left. Left the house, without a word. I was shocked.. I text him later asking him what was up, no reply. Just came back 2 hours later. I asked where he went, and he said: Out to eat, he was hungry. Like nothing happened.
I hate being sensitive... Maybe I'm overly so because of this pregnancy.
I'm also having horrible chest pains, like I can't catch my breath. Is this normal for pregnancy?
I was never like this with our son. Who, my SO is completely fine with. He still plays with him, doesn't ignore him when he is jabbering about 3yr old things lol. I'm glad he isn't acting like this toward him.. Although, my being upset does, and my son asks me sometimes why I'm crying or not playing with him (because I'm trying to not let him see me upset).
Sorry for the rant... I just really never had this before. And I feel like I'm going nuts.
I fear post partum depression later, because my friend went through it.. If this much is bothering me now, or if my changes are making him want to leave or ignore me... Won't that make it worse? How do you work through all this stress and emotion without a supportive partner?
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