relationship and Christianity problem ?

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So I am almost 16. Extremely smart. Christian . I haven't been a virgin since I was 14, and my current boyfriend and I have slept together. I get on birth control sep. 7th but I feel like God is working on me. I feel so guilty for having sex with him. But I love him. I honestly do.. I took his virginity . I just need guidance .

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Now is your time to do it right.

There is a difference between sinning, and living a life in sin. You made one mistake and God will forgive you for it, but don't continue to knowingly make the same mistakes.

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Well, in my opinion, you need to pick either God or having premarital sex. The bible clearly states that God is against premarital sex. Yes, he is forgiving, but that doesn't mean you can just blatantly sin 24/7. Being a Christian means you follow the bible and gods will.

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I'm Christian too and have always felt some what guilty for having sex outside of marriage. But the main thing in my opinion is how your relationship with God is and not with anybody else. Having a good and strong faith in Him is the important part. it's not to say go around sleeping with everybody but a relationship also comes with intimacy when you love them. ❤️

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Sweety firstly the fact that you feel guilty is good. Because your heart is still receptive to what God is trying to warn you about.

Previous comments said you won't go to hell but that is not biblical.  The Bible clearly says people who commit fornication (sex outside of marriage) will not enter the kingdom of heaven.

And I wouldn't be so quick to blame God for sending you to hell. The choice between going to heaven or going to hell is with you! If you choose to commit fornication,  you are choosing sex over heaven,  over God!

There is only place for one God in your life. Anything you put above The Lord because a 'god' in your life. Choose carefully sweety. Don't make sex your God. The Lord says sex is for marriage for a reason. To protect you.

I'd encourage you to spend more time in Gods word and get his opinion about this. Because people have already told you it's fine you won't go to hell.

Heres some verses to check out. 
1 corinthians 6:9
Jude 1:6-7

There is many more.  Search the scriptures and let God work in your heart about this. Goodluck sweety x

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I wouldn't worry so much about it I highly doubt God will send you to hell for having sex before marriage more than anything He's forgiving and I believe if you just stick to keeping your faith in Him you'll be perfectly fine

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