Finding out the gender

Carolyn
Is anyone thinking of finding out the gender but keeping it a secret? I want to know but I also don't want a bunch of blue or pink items. I have some family members who might not to stick to more gender neutral items, which is really what I want. Partly because if we do have another baby, we can just reuse everything. 
Also - I know some people love gender specific stuff it's just not for us 🙂