he's a jerk.. right? *update*

I'm heading to the clinic because my doctor can't get me in until October and this is kind of an emergency. (I'm experiencing extreme pelvic pain, hardly walk and I am 10'days late.)I told my husband last night we needed to go around 8 so we beat the crowd otherwise the wait is gonna be super long. So when I wake him up he tells me he was up with the baby (something I always do every night) and that he's tired. So I give him 30 more minutes of sleep and tell him I'm gonna go ahead and go on my own. He then tells me I'm just trying to play the victim and I'm just like his mom, being a whiney little baby. He said I shouldn't have tried to go last minute and should've found a different doctor and made an appointment with them. Or go to urgent care. Is he right or just a jerk?