Rough patch in my relationship

Danielle
I'm 20 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 2 months. Recently, we've been going through a rough patch in which we're having a lot of arguments (usually started by me). The biggest problem is we text all day everyday and I like to talk on the phone with him also, especially if we didn't text that much throughout the day. He says he likes to gave time to himself and really sometimes doesn't like talking on the phone so he's rather text. This makes me really angry and I feel like he's saying he doesn't want to talk to his own gf. I get angry and start a fight with him, which is making him more hesitant to even talk on the phone at all. When we text or hang out everything is fine but this is putting a strain on the relationship. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. We've talked about marriage and kids in the future. I just want to know how to solve this