Should I tell him?

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I recently had a miscarriage back in April. My SO & I were devestated 💔! We are currently not using any protection and just kind of going with the flow. If it happens it happens. My question is if I do end up pregnant again do I tell him right away? Or should I wait until I know the baby is okay and I hear a heart beat? I don't want to put him through the pain again but then again I don't want him to miss out on anything! Please HELP! 😩

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I think tell him. Only because it's a journey for both of you not just one. Anything you go through he should be involved.

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I've also had two early miscarriages, so I totally get where you're coming from. I need my SO to be with me there during those hard times, so it's important to me to tell him. I don't tell anyone else though, not even my parents, and I don't plan to until I'm out of the first trimester. I get that it's such a devastating thing, but I'd hate for you to go through it alone 💞

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In my opinion, you should tell him... I also had a MC in April and we were both really upset about it. If I get pregnant again, I will be telling my Husband. It's not just my baby, it is his too and he has a right to know. We are in this together. If I were to have another MC, I know he would want to be there every step of the way with me because that is the loving, caring and supportive man that he is. The choice is yours to make, but that's my two cents.

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My man and I went thru this. I've thought about waiting to tell him if we get pregnant again cause he was really torn from the miscarriage. Still cries about it. But he wants me to tell him. We just won't tell anyone else until we find out the sex of the baby.

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talk to him about it. see what he would prefer.

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I had a misscarraige back in June and we were both devistated as well. But him and I talked about it and we are going to continue to try. We also talked and he said as soon as I find out I have to tell him and if another misscarraige does happen I won't be alone where as he doesn't want me to go through that alone ever.

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