I don't know why but I get so disheartened and sad when people tell me how I should just ' not try for a baby ' and it'll happen when your body is ready etc, I've tried for 5 months now, and people have said to me I shouldn't even bother going out buying conceive plus this month I should just not think about it... I've got 8 days to af and I've kinda lost hope now, I'm probably being silly but I'm really down about it :(