My husband can't stand my mom and I can't stand his.

MY REASON: It was all find and dandy until his mom came at my face once talking shit because I was trying to explain to my husbands nephew how to respect his mom (he's her favorite grandson btw) and told me to butt off or else I'll have to "deal" with her.... and she even wished bad health to my 5 month of son simply because she was calling him and he wouldn't turn around. Like WHO TF DOES THAT SHIT!!!! OBVIOUSLY HE'S NOT GOING TO FUCKING TURN AROUND AND LOOK AT YOU! HE WAS ONLY THREE MONTHS AT THE TIME. LIKE BITCH, SERIOUSLY ????? Anywho, she then as wished bad on my relationship and to mack her words, but her son and I aren't going to last very long. I had even told my fiancée that my son wasn't going to go visit her anymore!!! And I didnt!! I didn't go for 3 weeks. She even started asking for him. But NEVER HAVE I EVER NOT ONCE DISRESPECTED THAT OLD BITCH. Simply because that's my man's mom. So... I fake a smile when I see her. I just make sure I keep my distance!

HIS REASON: well..... my mom is a complete list of things... but let me just put it like this... she'll rather have dick than me. His reason is more because the relationship my mother and I have. And she has even also gotten in his face and talked shit. My mom has kicked me out her out 5 times and this time will be the 6. The worst part of this is that this time and round it's with my family. Her and I just can't live together even when I try to help her. I moved in with her only because her boyfriend cheated on her multiple times...even got another girl pregnant..would send money to random girls in mexico... and etc. So I moved in because she needed help with the bills.... turns out.... a few weeks later, she gets back with him... and she's stayed with him until now.... now that she kicked me out, I see him moving in his clothes little by little. Ever since I was little, she would choose her boyfriends over me. I even told her this year that her ex once molested me and she tripled questioned me if I'm not making it up. I told her I was raped at the age of 13 and questioned me if it was even true. I love my mother... I've always said she raised me to have manners and to respect others. But the way she treated me was something else. When I was little, she'll get mad if I asked to have something off her plate. This one time she even threw the plate on the floor and told me to eat it. Time and time again..... she would make me feel like shit. Always turning things to make mee feel as its always been my fault. She blamed me for the separation of my parents. and that... yeah.. It was my fault. I told my dad that she was cheated on him. But she never let me forget it. And made it seem like it was my fault.

I've told my fiancée this before we decided to help my mom, but he gave her the benefit of the doubt and now he even tells me he understands my relationship. But the sad thing of all of this....

When my family (my mom's sisters and brothers) told her she should apologize, she said... apologize for what!... I used to live next door to my grandma... and they would hear my screams!!! They know how my mom is... but she always likes to be the victim... because of her I didnt speak to my family for over a year once.

Anyways.. yeah... we can't stand each other MIL but we do love each other very much. ❤

Oh and may I add that my mom is 38 and her bf is 24!!? He's so immature!