I've been having issues with my husband since he found some new friends with his city job. He works nightshift for the MTA and sometimes a job will finish early but they are technically getting paid for a few hrs more because they have time b4 they sign off which means time to kill.

He ends up going to bars and drinking with his co-workers at the thot witching hour (closing time),then drive under influence to where they sign out of work(he could get caught and put in unpaid rehab or fired)he keeps doing it which is basically a direct fuck you to me. Am I wronge for flipping out? His work friends are obviously pieces of shit and a bad influence and ive spoken to him many times about it and how I dont want him to do it. Im geting ready to start planning a separate run acct and divorce,im not overreacting right?

This is utter disrespect to a spouse correct?

This shit is difficult,he was a best friend like he was a rock when my mom was dying of cancer, turned relationship. I almost cant believe its happening to me.