Sex life is boring 🙄

As much as I love my hubby, our sex life is boring. 95% of the time he is always on top and I have never orgasmed from that. I only O when I'm on top but that would be once in a blue moon. It feels good and I'll moan here and there but I'm sick of it. I usually ask if he wants a bj but he doesn't like that 🙁 and anal and toys a big no. How can i change it? Any advice will be appreciated