I need help deciding!! I'm a first time mom and at first I thought I want an epidural no questions asked I don't want to feel that pain! But after doing some researching and talking to some other moms it seems you can have an easier (not painless) delivery if you go natural you can still get pain meds just not an epidural and the delivery will go faster and less complications and a faster recovery time I just don't know how I feel about all that pain!! PLEASE HELP! I need advice!