confused ?¿

ashley
so i'm very insecure with myself and i have this problem where i only want to have sex during the night time or when the room is completely dark . my boyfriend wants to have sex during the day knowing i don't do that . it upsets me because he won't respect that . am i in the wrong because im insecure with myself and i don't want him seeing my body or should he have respect for me ? 
he's horny during the day when i don't want to have sex but during the night i'm horny and he doesn't want to have sex .. so it's basically a loose / loose situation and i don't know what to do . i feel like i'm just gonna get to the point and eventually not have sex with him anymore because of my insecurities