I just went on a first date. We met at a coffee place. I think every single guy that I've ever gone out with wanted to figure out how to get to my apartment as quickly as possible, or stop the conversation. After a while, I suggested that we go to a movie, but he wanted to keep talking to me. We talked til the place closed and they had to ask us to leave. I really want a serious relationship! Was this similar to a first date that you had with your serious partner/husband?