Tell his girlfriend or keep it to myself?

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I met this guy on tinder and things were going really well. We were talking everyday, snap chatting back & fourth.. Until today he asked for my Instagram and I see a picture of him and his GIRLFRIEND. I comforted him about it, I said "wtf you have a girlfriend? To which he responded "yeah, what's wrong with that?" I said "we've been talking & you've been calling me cute" then the last message I got said this "well yeah it's true, you made forget I even had a girlfriend" I'm so mad.. Not because he did that to me. But because I've been cheated on before.. I don't know if I should tell his girlfriend or just keep my mouth shut about the whole situation.. What do I do!?

Edit: his response "I never wanted to cheat on my gf all I wanted from tinder was to meet new people to go have coffee and go on hikes with" LOL

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Tell her but also let her know that you didn't know her had a girlfriend

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I'd get screenshots and send them to her. I'd want to know if that was me.

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I would tell her I would want someone to tell me if my boyfriend was saying things like that

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I'd tell her because I'd want to know if my SO was cheating on me, even if it was just through text and phone calls. It's not your fault he's a man whore, he has it coming.

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I would definitely want to be told.. tell her he has a tinder too.. you definitely don't get a tinder account to only meet people to go "have coffee" with..  that's bs.

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I would want to be told for sure!

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I'd  tell her because it's probably not just you he is talking with and some women don't have as many morals as you do.  What if he brought home an std and you could have prevented it.  You do need to fully prepare yourself because in her frustration she might try to take it out on you but even so you will have put a little bug in her ear that she might listen to when she calms down. Keep it brief, send a pic of the evidence,  explain you had no idea he was with someone and thought she should know.  Then apologize for any unintentional pain you have cause and let it go, move on.  It's in her hands at that point.

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Tell her

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Definitely tell her

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Tell her and about the tinder account and send her screenshots of the convoy so she doesn't think your crazy and want her man and trying to make drama for her, that your just looking out for her since you been there and know the horrible feeling of how shitty that is

Tell his girlfriend or keep it to myself?

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