MIL and ex- ghosts

Bhf • 31, married 💕in love with my little Rainbow Daughter born sept 2016! 💞

Girls, I need a place to vent. I found myself in a very strange situation now and literally it feels so awkward.

The problem for me is that I live with ghosts of my husbands past. When I moved in with him and cleaned the house found many things I did not want to find. Photos of his exes (not just particular one girl - few of them!) including nude ones, notes and letters to them, personal stuff of his grandma, parents etc.. seems like he was and is surrounded with his past. It was not hidden among his stuff but left in normal places of the house like bookshelves or sth so I accidentally found it. I requested him to get rid of these and start a new life with me but he just packed it and moved to the basement. Thought - okay, it is his past, now we are together, married and happy.

And now here I am, 39 wks pregnant and get phone calls from my MIL that she was meeting with 'girls' and got a few things for baby! It would be very nice if it would not be the stuff from his exes because she still stays in touch with them!!! I mean, seriously??? She got a milk heater from his ex for MY baby???? Or a pack'n'play from 'his very first sympathy' ?!?!? Awwwww how ... awful for me, especially that she says it where did these things came from!

It really affects my self confidence as a wife and woman. Especially that now he's been avoiding sex and intimacy and we are more like roommates. Feel ugly and not attractive for him anymore. 😦

Ahhhh😢😣😣 Am I overreacting? What would you do?