I am officially 12 weeks today. May god  bless all you ladies in your journey. Whatever it is you're going through just remember God has a plan. I never imagined not to be able to conceive a baby. after trying for 10 years getting a divorce meeting a great guy and him running off after I told him I was pregnant. Definitely not the ideal way I wanted to have a baby. Nonetheless I know God has a plan and I trust him. I know he wouldn't just give me a baby if he didn't know that I couldnt do it. at the end of the day what I really wanted was a baby, and if he the father of my child comes around he is welcome to if not and doesn't want to be a part of our lives it's his loss not ours.