My husband dropped a truthbomb on me a few months ago that he wants to join the national guard. Right now we have one daughter who is 2 and a son to be born november. I don't know how to feel he seems excited and told me about all the great benefits, but I am so afraid of losing him. I have told him about this and he says there is just a much of a chance that I'll lose him in now a day life than in the guard. I also don't want to pcs. I am in my home town and a long time ago we agreed that is where we will raise our children...

He understands he could get deployed and understands what it means to sign up...

I was hoping I could get some advice from other wives or something to help put my mind at ease?