I hate gender roles in the household.  While pregnant the one thing that gets on my nerves are gender roles.  I love my husband but he doesn't help around the house.  He works on his garden and makes projects for him self.  Which is fine but general house duties should be shares.  I work, he works and I do most of the cleaning and maintaining.  He won't even wash his dish he left in the sink, and leaves a pile of clothes by his bed.