I know it sounds strange but when my partner and i found out we were pregnant we decided not to tell anyone til we knew what we were having. My partners family is used to boys and my family wants me to stop having kids, so when we found out it was definitely another boy we decided to only tell people who were going to spend lots of time around us. So far only only like 3 people know and none of them are my partners family or mine they are just friends who know. And i am happy to keep my pregnancy a secret my partner and i find it relaxing not to tell anyone because now there are no family members pretending to care. We are trying to keep the whole pregnancy a secret til after our new baby arrives. Has anyone else tried to keep it a secret? How long could you keep it a secret? We are at 5 months so far.