So I started taking birth control for the first time on the 14th of August and that's also the night I lost my virginity. I realize it wasn't working yet that's not the problem. He wore a condom but didnt cum. 2 nights ago we had sex for the second time and he wore a condom but did finish this time. I knoe I'm not pregnant but the idea of it is freaking me out. Can someone calm my nerves?