If I am 15 years younger then my boyfriend. Is it normal for us to take awhile to conceive. We haven't really tried since we thought I was pregnant. Now we're just trying to figure things out. Because he wants a family and so do I. I am nervous to ask him questions about his past but after somethings that have been said I really want to know what is going on, so that we can either be friends or try to have a family. Goodness, this is crazy and I don't know what to do.