Bombshell after bombshell

Two weeks ago marked 10 months of me and boyfriend's relationship. It was also the day he told me he had been lying about his porn addiction. He had led me to believe for 9mo that he had stopped and was no longer seeing it. Although I do know it's not bad to watch porn, its become an addiction to him. So it IS bad. When he told me this I went into a slump (?) because that week had been the bearer of bad news and it made me wonder what else he'd been hiding from me. Also, His mother kinda started hating me because she didn't thought our relationship would last as long and be as serious as it is. And she brainwashed him, making him see that I had 'flaws' that needed to be changed, when these 'flaws' were just part of my personality (We fixed this. I told him what was going on, how he was trying to suddenly change me because his mom found something 'wrong' with me and everything is okay now.) In addition, the musical group he's part of is saying I'm a disturbance to him and have prohibited me from going to an open practice (It's an all men group and these boys will destroy anyone they don't like.) To top it all off, he raised his voice at me last week because I was getting 'offended and touchy about everything' (I told him it was because I was feeling attacked by all these situations. Something he still doesn't understand.) All  this happened from July to August.