Flu shot during pregnancy ? Thoughts ?

Michelle • Married to love of my life & mother of 2 precious baby girls 💕🙏🏼
My doctor told me I need to get a flu shot while I'm pregnant as well as the DTAP (?) .. First off , I am deathly afraid of needles , specifically shots . Secondly I've heard that many women get even more sick once getting the shot and some even end up losing baby . (Just what I was told , not sure if that is directly linked to flu shot or not )