what should I do????

Question

I really need some type of guidance, me and my boyfriend broke up almost a year ago after being together almost a year, and I still can't get myself to get over him. Everyday I see him at school and it just makes me sick. The thing is I don't even want him back its just the thinking about all the good times we had and stuff just makes me wanna break down when I see him. I guess I miss the affection of being with someone. I am talking to this guy and I think I really like him but he lives almost 4 hours away and we can't be together. I just need someone to tell me how to get through this time because I am being tortured by my own mind thinking about someone that I really don't need in my life  . I'm just stuck😞😞😭😭😭😭

Answer

I think you need to take this time to just chill and get to really know yourself. Not sure how old you are but if you dwelling on someone that you don't even want to be with then it's time to move along (not trying to be mean). Although you may miss the affection of being with someone take the time to be single. The relationship befit my current one went straight to hell and it was like 2 years where I was just like fuck guys I need to enjoy being me and when the right one comes them I'll know. I've been with my current and soon to be husband 4 years now and I'm 25.

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I can't say I know exactly how you feel bc I don't. But I once had this boyfriend who lived about 45 minutes away and I could never see him. But at one point, we broke up and he went to rehab for drugs a few months later. We were still talking by sensing letters and I found a new boyfriend by then. My boyfriend found out and was upset and I didn't know what to do bc I thought he was gonna leave me soon. Well a few months later he and I broke up for a short period of time, and during that time I decided what was best for me and completely stopped talking to the boy in rehab. Now I'm in a happy relationship. 
So what I'm trying to say is, just forget about your ex. Go another route during school. Don't look at him. Don't think of him. Do things to distract yourself from him. And give the guy you're talking to a chance. You never know how well things may turn out.

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You will learn to move on and focus on yourself. Of course you will always be remembering your past relationship until you find the next one, especially if you feel alone and want affection. Stick it out girl, the right person will come trust me. I have been a while without a partner, I think it's important for self-growth. If you actually like this guy then meet up, I thought I did but I was totally rebounding !! The mind is a funny thing

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