husband...

The other day I made a post about how my husband stays up late to play video games, and refuses bed when I ask. I asked why I was bothered so much. Everyone told me to chill out, let him do whatever he wants and that it's not a big deal. But it is!! Because he stays up the entire night and sleeps the day away. He has no clue when to stop. He came to bed at 6:00 this morning and he has to work at 10:00. I hate when he does this because as soon as he gets home from work he'll be asleep. I don't get to spend time with him because he's messed his sleep schedule up so much. And he gets so mad at me when I try to tell him otherwise. :( should I really just let him do what he wants now? I have no choice but I have a right to be upset!