I need to vent😤

So I am 32weeks pregnant and my baby shower is coming up on Sep. 25th. Well from the beginning my best friend said he was going to throw me a shower.. Well he hadn't done anything so my mom decided to plan it and we sent out invitations. He lost his job so I told him it's fine if he can't and he said he still wants to.. I told him it's a little late now and we already are planning it, he kept saying that he was waiting on me to tell him what to do😑 I was like that's now how it works but if you still want to do something maybe you can buy the decoration and we will go shopping together? He said fine. Well in the mean time he had asked about the bed in my guest room and if he could have it since it is now the nursery. I said sure come pick it up. We have agreed a couple of times on a time and day but he always changes his mind. Same for going shopping for the baby shower😒 So now it's been a couple of weeks and he hasn't asked about the shower but he just text me again about the fucking bed🙄🙄🙄 I'm just so annoyed that that's all he cares about.. Im glad I didn't leave the shower up to him otherwise I wouldn't be having one.. I haven't responded to him..Sorry this is long but what would you say to him??