Help please

Vanessa
I've previously had 2 misscarriges, both at 5 and a half months, been with my partner of 16 years. Last sign of AF was 26th of July but I'm unsure if it was AF or not. Spotted for 3 day's then had a little bleed then spotted another few days a total of 8 days! Definitely unusual for me. As of today, no AF, to scared to test as I don't want to get my hopes up 😯